Welcome to Recovery in the Lifestyle


Recovery in the Lifestyle is a fellowship of people in the BDSM lifestyle who are in recovery, or would like to be, and their guests. RitL follows the steps of the recovery and respects the great importance of anonymity for many of us.

Our fellowship is based on the AAWS-approved 12 Steps and 12 Traditions. Anyone who is in the lifestyle and participates in ANY 12 Step Recovery group is eligible for membership in RitL.

This is a positive, solution-oriented 12 Step group.

Adults 18+ Only

Cost of Admission

$5 Donation. No one will be turned away or shamed for their inability to pay.

Sponsorship Information

This event is hosted by RitL at Club Threshold. for more information on RiTL go to:

We are grateful to have the opportunity to partner with RiTL to help them provide Service to the community by providing a venue for their monthly meetings.

For questions regarding this meeting, contact:
ñyaDom or lowlypatheticsub.


2rd Sunday of the month
5:00pm to 6:00pm (check calendar)

Additional Information

Doors close when our maximum capacity of 90 people is reached, no admittance thereafter.

  • This is a COMMUNITY event.
  • LGBTQIA+ friendly, all gender identities, sexual orientations, ages, races, religions, ethnicities & roles are welcome.
  • We are service animals friendly.

No Drugs, Alcohol or Intoxication

Club Threshold prohibits the use of alcohol, illegal and/or illicit drugs at any of its functions. Threshold also prohibits the use of legal marijuana, medicinal or recreational. Intoxication is not tolerated. If you appear to be inebriated, you will be likely be approached by a DM for your own safety and the safety of others. The DM’s word is the last word on this issue, and members that appear inebriated may be asked to leave.

Please take a look at our Rules & Etiquette for more information when attending co-sponsored events.

About our Facilities

Threshold is equipped with a lounge area, bathrooms, lockers, kitchen, 7 themed rooms, our large main room with multiple play areas& a renovated state-of-the-art lighting setup.

Soda & water are available with a $1.00 donation. Help us reduce our carbon footprint by bringing your own reusable liquid container. 

Please consider bringing a potluck item to share, These events are community-driven and your help is greatly appreciated. 

Our Location

The Threshold Society, Inc.
Club Threshold
11300 Hartland St.
North Hollywood, CA 91605